Why do people always strive to make life smooth and perfect when they know for sure that life has its ups and downs? Well, at some point in life one should be able to be calm in storms because storms are part of life.
It looks like there are levels in life and your strength, courage and resilience are always tested before the next level is unlocked. If you decide to remain on the same level, you may have less stress but that is if you have the ability to ignore everybody else and the constant changes in the world. Is that even possible? I don’t think so…
Do humans ever get satisfied at any point in life or they always want more? Should I say humans will forever be curious and usually that brings about some of the good and terrible experiences we come across as well as the consequences that come after? That’s when you hear people say money can never be enough, you always want to make more of it.
Why do we say some people are possessed when they easily switch moods and are emotional? Are mood swings and emotional fluctuations not normal? One moment you feel so high and happy and the next moment you are down. Sometimes you wake up feeling low.
This is normal with everybody but the only difference is that it happens to jus at different times. Some people have control over these fluctuations but some don’t and they need help.
Why do we always end up trusting people even after being betrayed? We can’t build relationships without trust. If you are to do business with other people then you have to have a little bit of trust in them. Relationships are a necessity in everyone’s life and trust is needed. Trust and stupidity are two different things!
If your trust was once broken, try to build it again otherwise you will keep on losing good people in your life because you will definitely behave in such a way that will drive them away from you. People never want to be with people who do not trust them.
A secret is only a secret if kept in one heart. We all know that but why do we still share private information with the wrong people and regret later. We are humans and sometimes we have the urge to speak to someone about our private lives. Truth be told, telling someone about your life is like giving that person a weapon to use against you when need arises. But still, you have to talk to someone otherwise life will choke you. Just choose the right person.
There is never someone like you. You may have similar stories or problems but there is always a slight difference. How is that even possible? It is a mystery; life is a mystery that you can never fully understand.
Why do we always get heartbroken when our plans fail? Everybody knows that life is so unpredictable but we still are not immune to disappointments. Things don’t always go as planned but we have to stay positive and believe that things will go as planned.
Why do we get depressed because of social media yet we know people post their best moments only? They hide their problems and most of them are not as successful as they appear to be on social media.
We all know cheating destroys relationships but we steal do it anyway. We know there is always a substitute somewhere but we are always quick to breakup or get divorce and regret later.
We all know that drinking alcohol and smoking is harmful to health but we do it anyway. Most people will decide to quit after being told by a doctor that they have one lung left or their liver is damaged.
Politicians always promise to deliver many things and services but they never do it after being voted for. They do it over and over again but we still vote for them. We still believe they will do it and we give them many many chances.
Do you even know the purpose of your life? I bet there are some of us who do not know their purposes. It is normal but work on getting to know it. Focus on bringing positivity to the lives of those around you. Avoid being selfish and you will enjoy any side of life.
Keep in mind that actions are like seeds that will grow and bear fruits. There are consequences for every action and decision you make in life. Try to do good every time and you will reap good fruits.
Take your time to think before jumping into any conclusion and always be considerate of those around you when you do things.
Remember, nobody has it all figured out in this life, nobody really understands life and everybody is dealing with something unpleasant that you do not know about. So be kind to yourself and others.
CHEERS!