It’s about time you get to understand certain things in this life. Let us say start seeing things differently. It’s time to change the mind-set for the betterment of our way of life in the society.
A mans’ world always involves a woman. A woman is an independent human being with her own mind. The idea of trying to control her whole existence doesn’t work anymore. It is now causing a lot of drama and broken relationships.
Support your woman the same way you would like her to support your dreams. Every human being has dreams and aspirations and that keeps them going and making progress in life. Yes, your woman is your helper in such a way that her dreams and yours combined together can make you great.
It’s not about you being more successful or making more money. It is about working together as a team, supporting each other and growing old together. Members of the same team cannot compete with each other rather they should work together. Support your woman.
Women are more emotional so try to choose your words wisely. They easily get hurt or feel like you are side-lining their feelings. Small matters to you may be big issues to her. Listen to her attentively.
The fact that you paid her bride price doesn’t make her your property or an object. She remains a human being with human rights just like you do. Stop maltreating women all in the name of paying bride price.
Try to help her out with chores. She gets tired the same way you get tired. Simply help her out especially if she is not a full time house wife. Making women feel like slaves is the reason why many homes are broken or relationships have failed.
She gets hurt the same way you do if she cheats on you. Be content with one woman. That will give you a peaceful life. One woman van give you more than enough love or better still more than enough drama if you don’t treat her right.
Look nice, wash your body everyday, brush your teeth, just like you would expect her to do. Smell good and keep your hair neat. Be kind and friendly and be approachable. Don’t intimidate her.
There is a difference between being respected and being feared. Build mutual respect. You will be safe that way.