The earth and its fullness belongs to God who created it. This means he is the ultimate judge not us humans judging other humans. There is always a better way of telling someone that what they are doing is wrong. You can’t help someone by judging them.

We must agree that it is difficult to tell someone the truth without making them feel like you are judging them, without them thinking that you see yourself as holy. It is even more difficult if that person knows your weaknesses.

Instead of listening to you, they will remind you of your mistakes or your terrible past. Parents are having their kids back chatting them each time they try to correct them. You hear a child saying that you  can’t tell me this because you do or you are like so and so.

The truth is humans know when they ate doing wrong things. They feel guilty at first and later get used to it until they see nothing wrong. Some are forced by circumstances into doing terrible things and they cry behind the scenes. So, judging them will not help the matters.

It is so annoying to hear someone judging others and yet they are  not perfect. To make matters worse, they don’t have or cannot even suggest any sort of solution to the underlying problem. Don’t run mouth if you don’t know what to and how to say it.

Some people who steal do so because they are suffering, they do not have anything or anyone who can help them out. They know stealing is not right and is a crime but they are still doing it. Judging them will not help them at all.

If you find someone doing something wrong, find a way to handle them without breaking them. Most of the times they know what they are doing is wrong so you only need to convince them to stop doing it without judging them.

By Brenda

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