I remember back in high school, we read a poem entitled ‘A woman’s enemy is a woman’. It didn’t make much sense but as I grow up I got exposed to many things.
Life starts to reveal its complexity as you grow up. I realised that indeed a woman’s enemy is a woman and men are aware of that. Men are fully aware of that and they use that to their advantage.
It is very unfortunate that we cannot change this. Relationships are challenged everyday everywhere because nowadays women do not care if the men approaching them are married or not.
All they care about is getting money from them and perhaps get married if things go well. One day I spoke to a single mother and she explained how difficult life is when you are alone with a child or children.
Life is easier when you have someone to talk to and share your burdens with. That is why we hold on to any man who supports us financially and we make sure we treat them right to keep them and their money.
It is not by choice but circumstances push us and on the other side we know what we failed before we were dumped yet most women in marriages don’t know these mistakes.
From these words I concluded that not every woman who is caught with a married man is innocent. People rush to say they didn’t know yet they actually know everything about the wife and all the issues they are giving in their marriage.
Women are dangerous and some are selfish. They can be promised that a divorce is going to be filed and they put pressure for that to happen. Some succeed some fail, depending on how smart the man is.
In most cases, men will always run back to their families, to their wives. This is after getting what they want, after using you to release that pressure from problems that they are facing.
They use you to fill up the gaps left by their wives but they never take you seriously. However, cheating is cheating and the fact remains that you have hurt another woman and there are consequences.
You married women, you should stop sharing things about your marriage. Love and respect your husband and don’t deny him sex otherwise there is another woman who is willing to give him that anytime.
Build your home. It should be peaceful and warm for him to stay there . Give him no reason to look for someone else. Treat him specially like a king. Appreciate him and that makes him feel good.
There are desperate women out there who are looking to take your position from you. Some just want to be recognised as married like what the bible said.
They don’t care about how you will feel. Pray for your marriage as anything that is good is always fought by the devil and the devil uses people like your fellow women to destroy it.