Most of us are dissatisfied with ourselves and achievements because reality is different from our imagination. An image is always way more perfect than reality.
I would give a perfect example of your crush. You admire them from a distant and you create your own version of them. When given the chance to get to know them better, things turn out to be totally different.
They are not who you thought they were. You simply judged them from their looks and pinned those qualities of your kind of man or woman on them. When you get closer you will notice that they are not as you imagined.
This could be the reason why some of us are never satisfied with our achievements or our lives in general. Our dreams are so big and perfect and each time we get a chance to realise them, they don’t appear as perfect in reality.
Green grass always looks perfect if you watch from afar, but you get closer you will notice that it is not as perfect and there are brown patches too. There are weeds on the lawn too that you don’t notice from afar.
Remember the above example if you find yourself comparing your life to others. We are all fighting our secret battles. We all have different dreams and we keep getting greedy for more even after getting to where we wanted to.
Life can never be perfect in reality but you can make I perfect in your head and that will bring positivity in your life. That will make you appreciate what you have achieved and be grateful for the good things and lessons you have learnt.
This takes us to a point where we need to have the right mind-set. Your mind is responsible for a lot of things in your life. It controls your life and if it is wrong or negative then everything about you will go that way.You actually have the power to actualize your dream. It will not be as perfect as it is in your head but being grateful and content with what you have will make it more beautiful. We are back again to the power of mind.Keep your thoughts positive as they may come to pass someday. In other words you should be mindful of your imagination as it may end up defining you. Moreover, life is spiritual and physical.